Read this email I received from a guy seeking relationship advice. He wants to go home for the holidays, but his fiancé fears he will cheat. The issue is causing lots of problems in the relationship. &n...

        It’s an uncomfortable, awkward topic that no one likes to bring up. Yet, when two people are getting married (especially for a second time) the question, “Should I get a prenup?” is a smart and necess...

  A reader’s comment below prompted this blog post. I’m not sure if he is thinking of getting back together with his ex-wife or if he is asking how to let her down gently. I don’t think he would have written to me if he knew what he...

    I loved this post in the sense that it is something to think about if you are thinking of separating. A long term relationship is ALWAYS challenging and there will without a doubt be changes in both people over time. I always ...

  I need some dating advice. I’ve been dating a woman for the past few months and her divorce was final about two months ago. Last night we went out and she randomly had on her wedding rings. It’s very hard to give you dating advic...

It's an interesting way to offer divorce support for men, but playwright, John N. Frank is doing it in his new production, "Boys In The Basement." Here is Frank's guest post about his Evanston based play, that he hopes will help both men and women fa...

I can’t count the number of emails I receive from men telling me how unfair the laws are regarding child support. Referring to the laws in all different states, all the stories are very different, but the comments basically say the same things: ...

What’s the best way to get over falling in love with someone you met via online dating that you’ve actually never met in person?   Here is the good news. Getting over this person will not be difficult for you at all. Why do I say this? Bec...

I’m a divorced dad dating, wondering at what point do I tell my 3 boys? They are 11, 15 and 18.   Telling your kids you are dating isn’t an easy thing to do for any divorced dad or divorced mom. It’s very stressful, due to the uncertaint...

When do you think is the appropriate time to start dating after divorce? I don’t have anyone in mind, just a general question. 13 months into the divorce process. I haven’t moved out yet due to financial reasons. Very ready to try dating. Thi...